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| Video Published Date: | 03 October 2022 |
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| Date of NS: | 02 October 2022 |
| Location of NS: | MahāKailāsa |
| Start Time: | 00:00:14 |
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| Duration: | 00:19:58 |
| YouTube Title: | Relationship or Situationship? | Solve All Your Problems of Life About Your Relationships |
| Language: | English |
| Transcribed By: | Ma Nithya Aparicchedyananda |
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| URL Link: | https://youtu.be/MF21OcMzkLo |
| Special Notes: | LIVE DARSHAN || Puja to Devi Mahalakshmi, Sri Venkateshwara Swami & SPH | 02 Oct 2022 LIVE LINK: https://youtu.be/0AxkrjLPwTc |
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\[Darśan in progress\]
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ॐ नित्यानन्देश्वर परमशिव समारम्भाम् नित्यानन्देश्वरि परमशिवशक्ति मध्यमाम् | अस्मदाचार्य पर्यन्ताम् वन्दे गुरु परम्पराम् ||
oṃ nityānandeśvara paramaśiva samārambhām nityānandeśvari paramaśivaśakti madhyamām | asmadācārya paryantām vande guru paramparām || \[00:01:35\] I welcome you all with My love and blessings. I welcome all the devotees, disciples, sitting with us all over the world with My love and blessings.
Paramaśiva’s message directly from MahāKailāsa: … whatever expression you do from the truth you are consciousness, … sparkle of Paramaśiva, … whatever you manifest from this truth … is relationship. Everything else, whatever you manifest from the idea you are a body, just body, or just mind, just emotion will all be only situationship, not relationship.
\[00:03:06\] Listen. Listen intensely. These two words are the key words: relationship, situationship. The inner understanding, the core understanding about you: … if you have the understanding you are consciousness, you are … manifestation … sparkle of Paramaśiva, … from that space whatever you build, you manifest, whether … you move towards food, … or … seeing, listening, touching, sexual relationship, anything \- whatever you manifest … from the space you are Paramaśiva, … it’ll all be a relationship, amazing relationship. All relationships are good for you, because … from the mood, from the space you are Paramaśiva … when you move … towards anything, you will only experience Oneness. You will only manifest more good. Understand?
\[00:05:45\] From the space you are Paramaśiva even if you eat, … that food will become one with you and you become one with that food. You will bless the food and the food will bless you. You will do good to the food and food will do good to you. It’ll all be amazing, auspicious relationship. I am giving the example of food; whether food or any sense \- listening, smelling, seeing, touching, including sexual relationship, if you operate from the space you are Paramaśiva, if you operate from the space you are Paramaśiva … including sexual relationship \- all will be auspicious, lead to more and more Oneness. This beautiful Ardhanārīśvara will be your experiential reality. Ardhanārīśvara is the pure manifestation of the cosmic union \- Paramaśiva and Paramaśivaśakti.
\[00:07:23\] Listen. From the space you are Paramaśiva, when you operate, you are literally living God. Not God-man, living God. Understand?
Anything you do from the idea you are a body, your mind, it will all be just situationship. Do not expect any relationship started with the idea you are just a body and mind to be a permanent relationship in your idea, in your life; even the word “relationship” is wrong; everything you do from the idea you are body and mind is just situationship. So don’t blame … the situations, other person, anything\! \[00:09:08\] You are trying to … get milk, cow milk from chicken, … from hen. No, it is not possible. Don’t expect the fulfillment of a relationship from situationship.
Most of you … get into so-called relationships because the situation pushed you into it, that’s all. Even if it was, it was your willful decision, the will you carry is operated, it functioned, it manifested from the idea you’re body and mind. See, you operate from the idea of body and mind, but you expect something which can come only from consciousness. Fulfillment, completion, … peace \- all these can come only from consciousness. Something which can come only from consciousness, how do you expect it from … the operations you did from the idea you are a body and mind? So listen. Contemplate and meditate intensely. See how … you build situationships in your life but you expect the results, fulfillment which can come only from relationship.
\[00:11:57\] Remember you are Paramaśiva. From that Paramaśivatva, if you operate, your ordinary breakfast … can empower you with so much of … power, energy, enlightenment; because you will see how the breakfast goes inside you, how the bread becomes blood, how your body is functioning, alive, how it is manifesting, … how your breathing is automatically aligning itself for a more energetic day, … how your breathing supports digestion, and your food supports your breathing, and the whole supports each other … to manifest more joy, bliss, peace, enlightenment. I tell you, … from the right space … anything originates will be an amazing relationship. With wrong space, anything originates will be just situationship; I am not saying situationships are wrong. I am only saying don’t expect too much from situationship. At least be very clear, your situationship cannot cater, give you what relationship can give.
\[00:14:09\] You marry a ordinary man or a woman, who is cunning, strategic, violent, … exploiting, manipulating, exactly like you. And you expect the other person should behave like Paramaśiva, should give you everything you will get only from Paramaśiva or Paramaśivaśakti. What is … Listen. You get into a relationship, you get you, you marry a male or a female, someone exactly like you\! Hypocritical, cunning, exploitative, manipulative, cheating, strategic. You marry exactly a person like you. You get into relationship with exactly like person like you, but you expect … you should get everything you will get only from Paramaśiva and Paramaśivaśakti from the other person. Situationship cannot give what relationship can give you.
\[00:15:33\] Relationships are different. Situationships are different. Only … the absolute honest connection you have with your consciousness, through your consciousness with Paramaśiva \- only call that as relationship. Everything else call it as situationship. Listen. You cognizing, knowing you are consciousness, your relationship with your consciousness \- that can be called as relationship. Through the realization you are consciousness, the relationship you built with Paramaśiva, that can be called as relationship. Other than this, do not call anything as relationship. Everything else is situationship. Everything else is situationship\! Listen\! This one truth will solve all your problems of life about relationships; all your relationship problems can be solved, resolved with this one understanding. This one understanding can resolve everything. Other than your conscious relationship with yourself, your conscious relationship with Paramaśiva, everything else is situationship. Meditate on this.
\[00:17:47\] I’ll reveal more truths, … more powerful cognitions, more initiations into further satsaṅgs because today … we have Durgā Pūjā. Long Caṇḍī Pārāyaṇa is there. I want all of you to attend the Caṇḍī Pārāyaṇa. So these three days, let’s enjoy Devī and Durgā Pūjā, ... traditional rituals. Then I’ll give you more and more powerful cognitions, enlightenment science, jñāna. So, … I’ll reveal more and more about Tantra śāstra, and the truths from Tantra shat… Tantra śāstra.
So with this, I bless you all. Let’s all radiate with Integrity, Authenticity, Responsibility, Enriching, Causing, living Śuddhādvaita Śaivam, Paramādvaitam, the State, Space, Powers, Being, Superconsciousness and Kailāsa of Paramaśiva. Paramaśivoham, Oṃ Nityānanda Paramaśivoham. MahāKailāsa of Paramaśiva, Paramaśivoham, Oṃ Nityānanda Paramaśivoham. The Eternal Bliss, Nityānanda. Thank you. Be blissful. \[00:19:42\]
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